momo asked:


I had some Russian female friends, they were kind of calm, quiet, shy, not like Latinos. Are most of like that?

A. Hathaway asked:


How to not be a victim of Relationship Fraud

It’s no secret that the Philippines produces a good number of foreign brides each year to Western men. Many women seek a better life from the poverty and widespread problems there, others are looking for something different, the money.

There are many successful marriages and lasting relationships that come from the exportation of Philippine brides. There are an equal number of women (and men) scamming Westerners out of the hard earned cash. The Internet has made meeting these women easy, and with beautiful brides awaiting, how does one know the relationship is real? Is she who she says she is?

Most relationships today begin on the Internet, or for a few, with a business trip or vacation to the Philippines. Developing a relationship on the Internet raises the risk level considerably. The best way to avoid fraud and scams (mainly advance fee fraud) is to visit the person and see who exactly you’re dealing with. Spend some time in her country and get to know her on a real and personal level. With today’s professional fraud groups, it can be difficult to know the difference between love and scam.

Avoid sending money and be skeptical of “emergencies”. Get to know the person slowly via the Internet, and follow up with phone conversations if the relationship progresses. Be wary of requests for money. And don’t be crazy. If you’re thinking of marriage, invest in the effort to visit the Philippines before beginning any serious commitment. Lastly, if all looks good and you think you may have found the real thing, get the confidential background check by Wymoo International, and sleep well at night!

Be safe and happy hunting,

A. Hathaway

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Peter Finch asked:


What makes her so attractive and what are the good topics for conversation with a single Russian girl? Here are a few ideas what to talk about if you want to conquer a Russian heart!

Basically their beauty is inherited. Russians are a fine mixture between Asia and Europe. Their exotic appearance has been seen on the covers of many lifestyle magazines. Their mothers are elegant and their fathers are handsome and these ladies have taken the best from their parents.

Single Russian girls are taught to love wisdom and knowledge. Many of them speak more than two foreign languages fluently, especially those who are under their 30’s. After the changes in the ex-Soviet Union in the early 90’s many of these girls have traveled abroad and even studied in western colleges and universities. Their broad vision and experience makes them unique companions.

Their interests are various, from literature to art. If you learn a little about Russian literature, you will be amazed by the peaks achieved by this culture. Russia has unique authors such as Dostoevsky or Pushkin, both translated into many foreign languages and received their deserved place in the pantheon of the classics.

If you have a little free time, use it to search for one of their works and read it. You will be knocked out by the power of words they manage to combine. Do not be afraid to share your opinion with your girl!

Your date will be highly impressed if you ask her what stories she liked when she was young. Discussing someone’s childhood is always a good way to reach her heart. Of course you should be prepared to conquer her with the name of Eduard Uspensky or other popular Russian author for kids. Uspensky was the author who created the stories for the so called “Cheburashka”, a cute little bear-like animal which maybe you have already seen.

Today Cheburashka is famous in Japan, USA, Israel and other countries but due to copyright controversy it is not possible for the stories to gain the same popularity as for example Roald Dahl’s did.

Your knowledge in Russian literature for sure will amaze your date and you will be half way to her soul. Young people are interested in music and Russia has many talented performers. Starting with Tatu you can move the conversation to Ruki Vverh (both very popular bands in Russia and even abroad).

Surely there are many music styles and tastes, so be curious what your girl likes. Ask her to send you some tracks or to tell you from where you can download them. Apart of maintaining the conversation this will allow you to keep in touch with her after your first date is over.

Family plays a highly important part in the life of every single woman. These ladies respect their parents and do everything possible to not disappoint them. Often they take studies in engineering, chemistry or physics, just to make their fathers happy. If you see a girl looking like a fashion model it will not be strange if she has master’s degree in quantum mechanics if she is Russian.

Single Russian girls means great challenge so be prepared with your first “Privet, kak tebya zovut?”.

Privet, kak tebya zovut? = Hello, what is your name?



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Amy Woodside asked:


We have seen many Russian dating services online which help Western men to meet with Russian girls and get married through a Russian agency or by themselves. Many Russian girls have come to America by getting married with Western men through these Russian dating sites. There are free Russian dating services and pay Russian dating agencies so online singles can select which one they need to register to. Most of Russian online agencies provide free registration, then charge members a fee to contact with other Russian women. There are some free Russian singles services that offer 100% free to their members because they really want to help Western guys with Russian ladies. These free dating sites usually have some ads on their site to pay for the host and domain.

Russian dating services are means for Western men to get married with Russian brides effectively. Many Russian women register their profile with beautiful photos on these Russian dating services so that online singles can contact them. Generally speaking, Russian women are very beautiful and hard workers, as well as educated. They want to change their lives by getting married with Western men. Some Russian girls can speak and understand English, but some have the language barrier. The most important reason that Russian women like getting with Western guys is that they are treated and respected better than Russian men do.

Statistics in recent years show that online Russian dating services and Russian agencies generate thousand of marriages a year. There are some Russian scams who take this advantage as a means to scam Western men’s money. But this rarely happen now because Russian women are screened for any criminal background before selection through Internet agencies. Free Russian dating agencies don’t do the screening because both sides know each other and decide by themselves. They just provide free dating services for members and you will be on your own after you get the other information, such as email address.

Thanks to this modern electronic world, we can meet each other online just as a matter of minutes, through instant messenger or chat rooms or web cams. The matter is that you need to be careful when dealing with specific members. Care is always the first policy that we all need to pay attention to. Not every profile on these Russian dating web sites are good profiles. Nobody guarantee this. Webmasters or Website owners do not have time to review each profile that is posted on their on line dating services. Also, some Russian females who just want to get married with Western men to come to that country. They will get divorced right after they get green card. So, you must be careful to learn from your Russian female before making decision to bring her here.

Tips for Western men and Russian brides: before deciding to get married with a Russian lady or Western men, please think about it carefully. Getting married is a big thing in your life.

So, are you ready to meet that special Russian girls or Western men. Do not wait. Take action now. Join these free Russian dating services and meet that other half of your dream.



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A. Hathaway asked:


The appeal of foreign brides and the primary risks.

From a United States, Canada and Western Europe perspective, we can examine the demand factor for foreign brides, and it doesn’t take long to uncover the reasons explaining the interest. For some of those living in the leading developed world, find something different or “exotic” can be the appeal. For others, the appeal may be to find someone from a different culture, who offers a fresh perspective, and arguably, a more natural and pure mentality not driven by the West’s competitive economics. The physical attraction is easy to pinpoint, as some of the world’s developing nations offer the most incredible women in the world – this is not debatable. Countries such as Russia, Romania, Colombia, Brazil, Argentina and Venezuela produce what many consider the best female talent available on the planet.

The potential reward of a woman from a foreign country and culture is real, but so are the risks. Some in nations such as the Philippines, Colombia, Russia and others in Eastern Europe have begun to cash in on this foreign interest, scamming foreigners out of millions of dollars each year. Scammers mix themselves in with the honest women on websites, typically, sending beautiful photographs and gaining the foreigner’s trust before asking for money, and more money. In addition to the relationship, advance fee and Internet fraud, there is the risk of blending two cultures in the form of language and cultural barriers, and pulling one away from his or her own home country to live. As in the financial markets, the risk-reward relationship here is directly related. For those willing to take sizeable risks, the potential reward can be substantial. On the other hand, it is wise to proceed with caution and do your homework to avoid the many pitfalls.

Is obtaining a beautiful and honest woman from Russia, Colombia or Brazil really an option? If so, what is the best way to make it happen? Based on experience we recommend visiting the country of interest in person, seeing not only the country’s women but also the culture first hand. If you don’t speak the language, seek out a woman in the country who speaks your language, at least basic conversation. This hurdle alone can save a great deal of money and heartache. Remember that with poverty (as in Russia, Colombia and Brazil) comes cases of women seeking financial gain, and nothing more. Approach women with a skeptical eye, and if visiting the country isn’t an option, use utmost caution and due diligence in screening these women. We recommend a confidential background check from a firm like Wymoo once any relationship starts progressing – before any money is ever sent. Too many people have lost big. That being said, there are no shortage of winners out there who are happily married.

Are there any websites that are immune to such cases of fraud? The answer, unfortunately, is no. No website is immune from gold diggers, relationship or advance fee fraud. It just isn’t possible to screen all the individuals paying for memberships on Internet matching sites. There are many beautiful women in the market. Sifting through those is only becoming more difficult.

Best of luck in the search,

A. Hathaway



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