Robert asked:


Now that you have found the perfect wife, you are now ready to follow the legal procedures that your government has set in order to bring your Mail order bride to your country and to your arms. But there is one problem that is looming in your horizon: the language barrier. While you were sending emails and chatting, you were utilizing the services of a translator. But when she arrives in your home, there will be no translator with you. How then, can you communicate effectively with Mail order brides?

Fortunately, there are steps that you can take in order to prepare her for the new culture and of course, make her more fluent with your language. One of the most recommended steps is to send Mail order bride to an English Language class. To show your commitment to her, you must, of course, pay for her classes. If you do not like this idea, because you fear scams, the other option is to pay for your own language class. The language, of course, is Ukrainian or Russian.

Thus, for various practical purposes, it is better that Mail order bride will be the one who will learn the English language. After all, she will be arriving in a country where the predominant language is English. When she learns English, she will be able to communicate with your friends, your siblings, and your parents. But there is one thing that you must anticipate. The English classes that Mail order brides will take will not be enough to make them as fluent as you. Therefore, you must help by giving Ukrainian Girls opportunities to speak the language. This is why you should call her and talk to her even without a translator. And when you talk to her, try to be as simple and direct as possible. There would be times when Mail order bride would use Ukrainian or Russian while talking to you on the phone. But that is alright. You will still be happy anyway, just hearing her musical voice.

In the meantime, you must also prepare yourself for the time she arrives. It is not just about cleaning your house and starting the wedding preparations. It is also ensuring that the whole marriage will be happy and strong. This can be done by putting yourself in the shoes of Ukrainian Girls. There are many things about her that you must keep in mind. But there are two major ones that you must never forget. First, Ukrainian Girl uprooted herself from her country and left everything that is familiar to her in order to become your wife. Under no circumstances, especially during the first few months of your marriage should you question her love for you.

Second, she is an intelligent woman. Your Ukrainian Girls have a university degree. They know a couple or more dialects. Ukrainian Girls are learning English and you are not. But it will be quite frustrating for Ukrainian Girl to be in a place where she could not even order her own food nor understand a TV show. This is where your patience must come in. You must become her tutor and her best friend.



Life of Adventure

Peter Finch asked:


Who to believe in love today when all women have commercial thoughts and quite careerist and tough vision of life. How should you read the signals that you get from your Russian date?

The first signs of your girl’s feelings will appear on phone calls. Telephone or alternative voice chats are very good to understand what her plan for the relationship is and what actually she expects from you. Unlike emails or normal paper letters, during a real conversation, she will not have time for selecting words with double meaning and pretence.

If she is serious towards this and not doing it just because she wants to fill in her life with a little romance, she will not find excuses to end the phone call. Of course the time difference is very big and when it is 10 at night in Russia it is early in the morning in America. There might be a day when she is not in a chatty mood because being tired, but constant excuses should make you suspicious.

If she says that she does not feel comfortable speaking at particular moment, ask her when it will be okay to call her. Many women live with their families and are nervous when they know that their parents are next to them, listening to the conversation.

You can suggest a keyword or key phrase which both of you will use when the moment is not suitable for phone romance. If she agrees with you on this, your communication will run smoothly.

Family is playing a major role in the life of Russian women. They respect elders and feel deep emotional connection with them. When they mention their family and introduce you to them, be sure that they like you and you are already considered close enough to be trusted and accepted in their world.

A good sign is when you call her on the phone and when her mother or father answers it to greet you with a friendly “Hi”. The old generation in Russia does not speak English or finds it very hard language, but the fact that they recognize your voice and say hello to you means that your girlfriend has shared with them who are you and what makes you special.

Maybe soon you will get invitation to visit Russia and meet them in person which is great step for you and your girl.

People there are afraid of gossips and until you are introduced to the family it is better to stay in a hotel. Later when you know them, probably they will ask you to move to their place for the rest of your stay.

Russians are hospitable and warm people and soon you will be convinced that language barriers will not stop you loving them. Usually when you are invited for a family dinner, you will stay drinking vodka or other alcohol with the father while your future mother in law and your bride are cooking fantastic pirogs (a kind of typical pie with jam or cheese) in the kitchen.

Dating Russian girls can be a rich emotional experience. I wish you will find this woman who will make you believe that love exists and will support you until the end of your life.



Vampire Advice

marvinsheldon.thomas asked:


I live in New York City, Manhattan, and I want to know which night clubs in the city do Russian and Polish girls go to? Which clubs do they most likely frequent in Manhattan, Brooklyn, and Queens?

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m.Usman asked:


Here in germany, I hardly see any russian girl getting attracted to west european men, they either hook up with their own russian men or strangely with Pakistanis or north indian or middle eastern. I have hardly seen any russian girl with a german or other west european man. Do they find nordic west european ugly.

Bob Miles asked:


1. Russia is more economically advanced than a lot of the third world countries where women seek overseas husbands. Many Russian women are already educated and successful, and thus they may not be seeking to immigrate for financial reasons. Thus, the thinking goes, their motivations are pure and they’re not so likely to leave you alone, confused and crying in the airport.

2. Word has it that men who seek mail order brides find Russian women more feminine than Western women. To hear them tell it, Russian women are more attractive than Western women. How much of this perception is real and how much of it is superficial “exotic appeal” remains to be seen is unclear at this point.

3. Most men who seek overseas brides are middle-aged or older, and young Russian women tend to be more open minded about marrying an older man compared to Western women. They tend to believe that older men treat their women better than young men do. For better or for worse, most men prefer beautiful women, and most men find younger women more beautiful. A middle-aged man can easily find a young and beautiful Russian woman much easier than in his home country.

4.Language: The United States is the most desired destination for most Russian mail order brides, and English language skills are spreading rapidly throughout Russia. DO remember, too, that mail order brides are probably more motivated than most to learn English, thus removing one of the greatest barriers to international matchmaking. Of course, complete fluency might be too much to expect, but once she gets to the US she will have the chance to practice daily. Who knows she might end up speaking English far more fluently than you’d like her to.

And let’s not forget, there is a certain type of American man who, for perhaps dubious motivations, would actually prefer a wife who can’t talk…



The Love Scout